While I wrote this essay/article for musicians, and specifically for piano players, the advice is applicable to any situation in which you are performing or speaking to a group of people. Whether your issue is a fear of public speaking or musical recital/concert performance anxiety, most of the below bullet points can be adapted to your particular situation. If you like this article, don't miss my other, tips for beginning pianists, piano composition, and these piano lesson myths!
Enjoy, and thanks for reading!
Speaking from my own experience, playing concerts LIVE for an audience…
Breaking this down...
Your practice time will be more focused and purposeful if you have the pressure of a live show to prepare for. The more live performances you do, the more frequent your "focused" practices become. Pretty soon, by default, all or most of your practice sessions have more meaning.
And… each new concert/recital/performance you do becomes a “live practice” for the next one.
Which means each subsequent audience will see you closer to the “peak” of your ability.Ever find yourself surprised by a random moment in which you’re asked to play—and you feel sheepish, unconfident and unprepared?
Play live regularly and you’re ALWAYS ready to play—and entertain—in any situation.
The more you perform, the BETTER you play and...
The more applause/positive feedback you receive.
The more you BELIEVE your audience will appreciate you, and...
The more confidence you'll have.
You'll know "you've got this," even if you feel a little nervous when you first walk out on stage.
It doesn’t take many shows to learn which of your songs connect most with your audience.
You may discover your most “popular” songs—based on stream or sales numbers—differ from the songs that a live audience responds to.
A TIP for PERFORMING Musicians:
Set up your event ticketing so that early-bird ticket buyers have an option to request 2–3 songs.
You’ll learn ahead of time what your audience wants to hear.
This will keep you polished up on both your “hits” and your “B-side” songs.
I used to be terrified of making mistakes, especially as a “solo” artist who felt “naked” on stage.
I discovered, to my delight, that audiences don’t care—and usually don’t notice—what I considered “mistakes.”
Proving…
Your audience only cares about your mistakes if you do.
If you ignore your flub and play through it with confidence, your audience will believe it was your intention... or simply won't notice.
So practice NOT caring about mistakes, playing through and recovering from them. And then BELIEVE it.
EXAMPLE: A Performance Disaster Gone Right:
Early in my career, I played my “worst show ever” at a university.
I felt defeated in the moment but played on as if I was not. I did not let my face betray my dismay!
After the show, a professor came up and said to me:
“In my 20 years here on staff, you are the most fluid, graceful player I have ever seen. 👀”
I learned that day that mistakes only matter to the audience if they matter to me.
Music in…
2D = HEARING only
3D = SEEING a LIVE performance
4D = EXPERIENCING an artist who ENGAGES the audience with storytelling
4D concerts are the ones that make a lasting impact.
4D concerts are the ones audiences rave about.
Be 4D
When you ENGAGE your audience, you create a unique, memorable EXPERIENCE that fans will want to relive and share.
Some in your audience will wonder, “How can I bring this to my house/party/fund-raiser/church/venue/place?”
Doors open.
At every performance, ask the audience...
ENGAGE your audience, and within it, you’ll encounter many kindred spirits.
Devoted “fans” become lasting friends who encourage you, support you, and actively share your music.
They’ll connect you to multitudes of resources and opportunities.
Establish yourself as a sought-after artist, and you can string together multiple concerts to boost your bottom line.
Unlike royalties or online sales, which can be unreliable, you control when—and how often—you perform… and what you charge.
Speaking personally here, I am completely in my element when I use the gifts my creator has given me to bless others.
To…
All as the Holy Spirit leads.
When I do these things, I am walking in my calling and my purpose.
There you go. I hope that was interesting-ish!
David Nevue
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